feat: Pump.fun mayhem_mode, Solana 3.1.12, TradeConfig builder alignment

- PumpFunParams::from_trade/from_dev_trade: add mayhem_mode Option; infer Mayhem
  via is_mayhem_fee_recipient when None (fixes fee recipient / NotAuthorized 6000
  when AMM protocol fee pubkey is used).
- Add is_mayhem_fee_recipient and is_amm_fee_recipient helpers in pumpfun utils.
- Bump solana-* crates to 3.1.12; align tonic/prost; use solana-message for
  AddressLookupTableAccount; add solana-system-interface 3.0.
- Update examples and latency script for new PumpFunParams signature.
- SWQoS and transaction builder adjustments for dependency changes.

Made-with: Cursor

src/common/spl_token_2022.rs

@@ -1,6 +1,6 @@
 use solana_program::pubkey;
 use solana_sdk::{
-    message::{AccountMeta, Instruction},
+    instruction::{AccountMeta, Instruction},
     program_error::ProgramError,
     pubkey::Pubkey,
 };